How you can cultivate & cherish relationships: 

1- Compliment & notice the little things

2- Have unplugged, intentional time with each other

3- Be the first to say 'I'm sorry" after a fight

4- Never complain about your spouse to other people

5- Learn each other's love languages 

6- Surprise each other with something little 

7- Give them the benefit of the doubt

8- Take care of & love yourself.
    Take evenings off to be with your friends. 

9- Show interest in things the other person likes to do

10- Talk about your goals, hopes & dreams together 

11- Be patient, edifying & filled with grace 

12- Be intentional in showing your love to each other